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Lesson 384 ·

“I used to be shy”: used to vs be used to vs get used to

In this short video lesson, the Ukrainian sentence «Раніше я була сором’язливою» (“I used to be shy”) appears in the notebook with a hint: used to. Watch the video, then read on for the explanation — and a trap that catches even confident learners.

The phrase: I used to be shy

Used to be means something was true in the past and isn’t now: about character, appearance, jobs or places.

  • I used to be shy.I’m not shy any more.
  • This street used to be quiet.Now it’s busy.
  • There used to be a park here.there used to be — about places that have changed.

Similar words: timid — easily frightened, reserved — keeps feelings to themselves. The opposite of shy is outgoing.

Don’t mix up used to, be used to and get used to

  • I used to be shy — in the past I was shy (now I’m not).
  • I’m used to speaking in public — it’s normal and familiar for me. After be used to comes a noun or a verb with -ing.
  • I’m getting used to my new job — it’s becoming familiar. Get used to is the process.

A quick test: if you mean “accustomed to”, you need be used to or get used to. If you mean “in the past”, it’s plain used to.

Check yourself

Say it in English, then reveal the answer:

  1. 1.He was very shy in the past.

    Answer

    He used to be very shy.

  2. 2.Getting up early is normal for you.

    Answer

    I’m used to getting up early.

  3. 3.There was a café here before.

    Answer

    There used to be a café here.

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